• Working with Stuff

    Envy

    I have a strong pattern around “envy”. It’s partly the background I grew up in. Back in Argentina, people will resort to anything to put on airs and graces, trying to impress everyone, while they simultaneously lose their sh!t whenever someone has something they don’t. Putting on airs, losing their sh!t. Rinse, repeat. It’s not a pretty sight, or a healthy state of mind to be in. It’s mostly seen on insecure people. And most always on *women*. People turn nasty. Manipulative. Heartless. They will grab onto anything to impress other people. Including their own offspring. “My child goes to Yale” “oh, yeah? Well mine goes to Harvard“. That kind…

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    When other people have what you want

    The other day I had a mini tantrum because someone had something I wanted. Though, to be precise, it was more like “someone had something I perceived to be similar to something I want”. And something happened: I immediately got all this wisdom from… a wiser part of me. (Havi calls hers “Wiser Me”). It just came into my mind (which is far less impressive than it sounds) and I wrote it all down. This is what she said to me. It is seriously spot on. I hope it makes sense and that you find it helpful. It is perfectly normal for you to have your Wants triggered by other…