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I wish I wasn’t a zombie

Sometimes, when I’m REALLY aware of how SINGLE I am, I unconsciously go into “zombie state”. You know zombies, right? They walk around like… zombies with only one thought in mind: “brains”. Except that they don’t have minds… I’m not doing a very good job of explaining zombies here. Let’s ask Wikipedia: A zombie isRead more

Strengthening boundaries: the “Everyday Sexism” edition

The other day something quite unpleasant took place… It was the kind of thing you would report to the Everyday Sexism project. But I won’t tell you more about it, because I’ll be damned if I dirty my shiny, precious website with dirt. We are still going to work with it, though. Because it’s common.Read more

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The Pain of Mars vs Venus

  Today I found myself thinking about this idea that “men and women are different species”. To be precise, I found myself “sensing” how much pain this “idea” brings out for people. Especially men. See, here’s the thing. As women, we are “allowed” to talk about our feelings and our inner worlds. We are allowedRead more