• Stuff you can try,  Working with Stuff

    Using Lovers

    My ex used to say that women want men the way they want fashion accessories. “They want men like they want a purse“. My ex was an arsehole. So there’s that. I’ve been noticing lately how and when I hanker for a man And the truth is… Not flattering. When I’m bored, and I crave entertainment. When I feel sad, or lonely, and I want a hug. When I feel insecure, and I want reassurance. When I panic about “what am I doing with my life!!!” and I want reassurance. When I want access to comfort and luxury and safety, and I imagine that a man would be the ticket…